Sympathy Flower Card Messages: What to Write on Funeral Flowers

Sympathy flower card messages need to be short, because the small card tucked into a funeral arrangement or a sympathy bouquet has room for only a line or two. The examples below are sorted by who is sending the flowers, from family and close friends to coworkers, companies and neighbors, and almost all of them fit on a standard florist card.

Most florists ask for the card wording when you place the order, so it helps to have your message ready before you call or check out. You can copy any message as written or change a word or two so it sounds like you.

Article contents

• How to Write a Sympathy Flower Card
• Short Sympathy Messages for Flowers
• Funeral Flower Card Messages from Family
• In Loving Memory Card Wording for Funeral Flowers
• Sympathy Flower Messages from a Friend
• Funeral Flower Messages from Coworkers or a Company
• Sympathy Flower Messages from a Neighbor
• Sympathy Flower Messages for the Loss of a Parent or Spouse
• Religious Sympathy Flower Messages and Bible Verses
• Sympathy Plant Card Messages
• How to Sign a Sympathy Flower Card
• Frequently Asked Questions

How to Write a Sympathy Flower Card

1. Keep it to one or two lines. A florist card is about the size of a business card, so a short message is easier to read and easier for the florist to write or print.
2. Think about who will read it. Flowers sent to the funeral home are often seen by many guests at the service, while flowers sent to a home are usually read in private by the family.
3. Use the name of the person who died when you can. A name, such as "Remembering Grandpa Joe," makes even a very short message feel personal.
4. Sign with your full name. Families often receive many arrangements, and they will want to know who sent each one when they write thank you notes later.

Example: "Remembering Carol with love. She was a wonderful friend. With sympathy, Mark and Jen Davis"

Short Sympathy Messages for Flowers

These one-line messages work for almost any sender and fit easily on the smallest florist card.

• With deepest sympathy.
• Thinking of you with love.
• In loving memory of [Name].
• With sincere sympathy.
• Holding your family close in our thoughts.
• Remembering [Name] with you today.
• So sorry for your loss.
• Sending love and comfort.
• With love and sympathy.
• Forever in our hearts.
• [Name] will be deeply missed.
• Our thoughts are with you and your family.
• Thinking of you today and in the days ahead.
• With love and remembrance.

Funeral Flower Card Messages from Family

Flowers from aunts, uncles, cousins and in-laws are often addressed to the closest family members. Adding a family name helps the family know which branch of relatives sent them.

• With love and sympathy from all of us. The [Last Name] Family
• Remembering Aunt Ruth with love. We are holding all of you close.
• We are so sorry. Uncle Jim meant so much to every one of us.
• Grieving with you and grateful for every summer at the lake with [Name].
• We will miss him at every family gathering. Love, [Names]
• Sending love to you and the kids. We are only a phone call away.
• She was the heart of our family. We love you all.
• With love from your cousins in [City].
• Saying goodbye to Grandma together. We love you.
• Remembering [Name] with love and gratitude. Love, [Names]

Messages from Grandchildren

• We love you, Grandma, and we will miss you always.
• Thank you for every story, every hug and every Sunday dinner. Love, your grandchildren
• Forever our Pop Pop. Love, [Names]
• You taught us so much, and we will carry it with us.
• In loving memory of the best grandpa. Love always, [Names]
• Missing you already, Nana. Love, your grandkids
• Thank you for loving us so well, Grandpa.
• We will think of you every time we bake your sugar cookies.

In Loving Memory Card Wording for Funeral Flowers

Arrangements from the immediate family, such as a casket spray or a standing wreath, often carry a card written to the person who died. These "in loving memory" messages are usually signed by relationship, such as "your children" or "your loving wife."

• In loving memory of a wonderful mother. Love always, your children
• Forever loved and forever missed. Love, [Names]
• Dad, thank you for everything. We love you.
• In loving memory of our husband, father and grandfather.
• Until we meet again. All my love, [Name]
• Always in our hearts. Love, your family
• Rest peacefully, Mom. We love you.
• In memory of [Name], who filled our home with love.
• With all my love, now and always. Your loving wife
• To our sister and our friend. We will love you always.
• In loving memory of our son and brother. You are with us every day.

Sympathy Flower Messages from a Friend

A note from a friend can be a little warmer and more personal, especially when the flowers go to the family's home.

• I am so sorry, [Name]. I am here for you.
• Thinking of you and remembering [Name] with love.
• Sending you love and a big hug.
• [Name] was such a kind person. I am so sorry.
• With love and sympathy, your friend always.
• Holding you close in my thoughts.
• I will always remember [Name]'s laugh. Sending you love.
• So sorry for your loss. Call me anytime, day or night.
• Wishing you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
• I love you and I am thinking of you. [Name]

Funeral Flower Messages from Coworkers or a Company

Flowers from a workplace should be kind and simple. Name the team or company clearly so the family knows who to thank. For a longer note to a colleague, see our guide to expressing sympathy at work.

Messages from Coworkers

• With deepest sympathy from all of us in [Department].
• Thinking of you and your family. Your friends at [Company]
• We are so sorry for your loss. Please take all the time you need.
• With sincere sympathy from your coworkers.
• Our thoughts are with you and your family.
• Sending love and support from the whole team.
• So sorry to hear about your mother. We are thinking of you.
• With sympathy and care from your friends at work.

Messages from a Company or Office

• With deepest sympathy from [Company Name].
• In memory of [Name], a valued member of our team. [Company Name]
• Our thoughts are with the [Last Name] family. [Company Name]
• With sincere condolences from the staff of [Company Name].
• [Name] will be greatly missed by all of us at [Company Name].
• In grateful memory of [Name] and [Number] years of service. [Company Name]
• With sympathy to the family of a longtime client and friend. [Company Name]
• Remembering [Name] with respect and gratitude. All of us at [Company Name]

Sympathy Flower Messages from a Neighbor

• With sympathy from your neighbors on [Street Name].
• We are so sorry. [Name] was a wonderful neighbor.
• We will miss seeing [Name] out in the garden. With sympathy, the [Last Name] Family
• Holding your family in our thoughts. Your neighbors, [Names]
• [Name] always had a wave and a kind word for us. We are so sorry for your loss.
• Thinking of you. We are right next door and glad to help with meals or errands.
• With love and sympathy from all of us on [Street Name].
• We are so sorry for your loss. Our street will not be the same without [Name].

Sympathy Flower Messages for the Loss of a Parent or Spouse

When you knew the parent or spouse who died, mention them by name or by relationship. For longer card messages, see our guides to sympathy messages for the loss of a mother, sympathy messages for the loss of a father and sympathy messages for the loss of a husband or wife.

Messages for the Loss of a Mother or Father

• So sorry about your mom. She was always so kind to me.
• Thinking of you as you say goodbye to your dad.
• Remembering your mother with love. She raised a wonderful family.
• Your father was a good man. With deepest sympathy.
• Holding you close as you grieve your mom.
• With love and sympathy on the loss of your father.
• I will always remember your mom's warm welcome. I am so sorry.
• Your dad will be missed by so many people.

Messages for the Loss of a Husband or Wife

• So sorry about [Name]. Thinking of you with love.
• With deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband.
• Remembering your wife with love. She was kind to everyone she met.
• Thinking of you and all your years with [Name].
• Holding you close as you grieve your husband.
• [Name] will be missed by so many. We are here for you.
• With love and sympathy. Your wife was a dear friend to us.
• Sending love to you and your family as you say goodbye to [Name].

Religious Sympathy Flower Messages and Bible Verses

If the family shares your faith, a short prayer or blessing can be a comfort. Our religious sayings for sympathy cards and Christian condolence messages have more ideas.

• Praying for you and your family.
• May God give you comfort and peace.
• With sympathy and prayers.
• Keeping your family in our prayers.
• May the Lord hold you close in the days ahead.
• Rest in peace, [Name]. Your family is in our prayers.
• With prayers for comfort and strength.
• Thanking God for the life of [Name] and praying for your family.
• May God's peace be with you.
• Praying the Lord surrounds you with His love.

These short Bible verses (NIV) fit on most florist cards:

• The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. (Psalm 34:18)
• Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. (Matthew 5:4)
• He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. (Psalm 147:3)
• The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. (Psalm 23:1)
• God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. (Psalm 46:1)

Sympathy Plant Card Messages

A peace lily or other potted plant is a popular choice for sending to a home, and it lasts long after cut flowers fade. These messages fit a plant as well as a bouquet.

• A living plant in memory of [Name].
• Planted with love in memory of [Name].
• We hope this plant brings you a little comfort. Thinking of you.
• In memory of [Name], who loved her garden.
• With sympathy. We hope this plant reminds you of [Name] for years to come.
• Something green to remember [Name] by. With love, [Names]
• In loving memory of [Name]. With love from your friends at [Church Name].
• Thinking of you as the weeks go on. With love and sympathy.

How to Sign a Sympathy Flower Card

Most people end a florist card with a short closing and their full name. Include a last name, or how you knew the person who died, because the family may not know every friend or coworker. Many families keep the cards so they can send thank you notes after the funeral.

Common ways to sign a sympathy flower card include:

• With deepest sympathy, followed by your first and last name
• With love, the [Last Name] Family
• In loving memory, followed by the names of each family member
• With sympathy, your friends at [Company Name]
• Your name plus a short note on how you knew them, such as "from [Name]'s book club"
• With prayers, followed by your full name

When several people send flowers together, list each name or use a group name such as "Your friends from First Street." For more ideas, see our guide on how to sign a card.

Frequently Asked Questions

What do you write on a sympathy flower card?

Write a short line of sympathy, such as "With deepest sympathy" or "Thinking of you with love," and sign your full name. If there is room, add the name of the person who died or one kind word about them.

What do you write on funeral flowers from family?

Arrangements from the immediate family are often addressed to the person who died, such as "In loving memory of Mom" or "Forever in our hearts, Dad." Sign the card with a phrase like "Love, your children" or with the names of each family member.

Should sympathy flowers go to the funeral home or the family's home?

Arrangements meant for the service usually go to the funeral home, where many guests may read the card. Flowers or plants sent to a home are more private, and many families are glad to receive them in the weeks after the funeral.

What should you avoid writing on a sympathy flower card?

Avoid phrases such as "everything happens for a reason" or "they are in a better place," which can feel dismissive to a grieving family. A simple, kind line and your name are enough.

Do I need to send a card with funeral flowers?

Yes. The small florist card tells the family who sent the arrangement, so always include one with your full name. A separate sympathy card mailed later gives you room for a longer note.

A florist card has room for only a line or two, so many people follow their flowers with a full sympathy card a week or two later. A card gives you space for a longer note, a favorite memory of the person who died or a specific offer of help. For wording ideas, read our condolence messages guide, short sympathy messages and my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Our sympathy cards and Bible Verse sympathy cards are blank inside, so you can write your own message.