First Communion Card Messages and Thank You Note Wording

First Communion card messages do not need to be long. A few warm lines that congratulate the child, say how proud you are and add a simple blessing will mean a great deal on the day, and many children keep their cards for years. This guide covers what to write in a First Communion card for a boy or a girl, messages from parents, grandparents and godparents, blessings, and Bible verses.

It also covers the thank you notes a family sends afterward to guests and godparents, plus a short set of Confirmation card messages.

Article contents

• How to Write a First Communion Card
• Short First Communion Messages
• First Communion Wishes for a Boy or a Girl
• First Communion Messages From Parents, Grandparents and Godparents
• First Communion Blessings and Prayers
• First Communion Bible Verses
• Confirmation Card Messages
• First Communion Thank You Notes
• Frequently Asked Questions

How to Write a First Communion Card

Most First Communion cards go to a child of about seven or eight, so short sentences and familiar words work best.

1. Start with the child's name and a congratulations. Mention that it is their First Holy Communion.
2. Say how proud you are. Children often reread these words years later.
3. Add a short blessing or prayer. One line such as "May God bless you today and always" is enough.
4. Mention your connection to the child. A godparent might mention the baptism.
5. Sign with love. Use the name the child calls you, such as Grandma, Aunt Kate or Uncle Mike.

Here is an example that follows those steps: "Dear Lucy, congratulations on your First Holy Communion. We are so proud of you and so happy to share this day with you. May Jesus always be close to your heart. Love, Aunt Kate and Uncle Mike"

Short First Communion Messages

These short messages fit inside a card on their own or work as the opening line of a longer note.

• Congratulations on your First Holy Communion. We are so proud of you.
• Happy First Communion Day. May God bless you today and always.
• Congratulations on receiving Jesus for the first time. We love you.
• May this special day be the start of a lifelong friendship with Jesus.
• We are so happy to celebrate your First Communion with you.
• May the Lord bless you and keep you close, today and always.
• Sending you love, prayers and congratulations on your First Communion.
• May you always feel God's love as much as we love you.

First Communion Wishes for a Boy or a Girl

Mention something about the child, such as how hard they worked in class or how grown up they looked in church.

First Communion Messages for a Boy

• Congratulations on your First Communion, buddy. We are so proud of the young man you are becoming.
• You looked so grown up in your suit today. Congratulations, and God bless you.
• We are proud of how hard you worked to get ready for this day. Congratulations on your First Holy Communion.
• May God keep you strong, kind and brave as you grow. Happy First Communion.
• Congratulations, [Name]. May Jesus be your best friend for the rest of your life.

First Communion Messages for a Girl

• Congratulations on your First Communion, sweetheart. You looked beautiful today, and we are so proud of you.
• May God fill your heart with joy and peace on your First Holy Communion and always.
• To a sweet girl on her First Communion. We love you and we are praying for you.
• May your faith keep growing as you do. Happy First Communion.
• Congratulations on receiving Jesus for the first time. May He always be close to your heart.

First Communion Messages From Parents, Grandparents and Godparents

Cards from close family and godparents can say a little more and mention the relationship.

Messages From Parents

• We are so proud of you today and every day. Congratulations on your First Holy Communion. Love, Mom and Dad
• Watching you receive your First Communion today was one of our proudest moments as your parents.
• We have prayed for this day since you were baptized. Congratulations, and always know that we love you very much.
• You worked so hard to prepare for today. We are proud of you and grateful to God for you.

Messages From Grandparents

• Grandpa and I are so proud of you. We are praying for you today and always.
• Congratulations on your First Communion, sweetheart. It was a joy to be in church with you today. Love, Grandma
• We remember your mom's First Communion, and now we get to celebrate yours. Congratulations.
• May God bless you and keep you close, today and all the days of your life. Love, Nana and Pop

Messages From Godparents

• As your godmother, it is a joy to watch you grow in faith. Congratulations on your First Communion.
• I stood with you at your baptism, and I am so happy to be with you for this day too.
• Being your godfather is one of the great honors of my life. Congratulations, and God bless you.
• Congratulations on your First Holy Communion. I am always here for you, and I love you very much.

First Communion Blessings and Prayers

A short blessing is a natural way to close the card. Fill in the child's name in the two prayers.

• May God bless you on your First Communion and always keep you in His care.
• May Jesus, whom you received today, stay close to you all your life.
• Lord, bless [Name] on this special day. Help him grow in faith, kindness and love. Amen.
• Lord, thank you for [Name] and for her First Communion Day. Keep her close to you always. Amen.
• May God fill your heart with peace, your days with joy and your life with His love.
• We pray that this day is the beginning of a lifelong love for Jesus.

First Communion Bible Verses

These verses are from the New International Version (NIV). Write the verse under your message and add the reference after it.

Verses for a First Communion Card

• "I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty." (John 6:35)
• "I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever." (John 6:51)
• "This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me." (1 Corinthians 11:24)
• "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." (Matthew 19:14)
• "Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him." (Psalm 34:8)
• "The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace." (Numbers 6:24-26)
• "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path." (Psalm 119:105)

Verses for a Confirmation Card

• "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
• "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)

Confirmation Card Messages

In many parishes Confirmation takes place in the teen years, so the message can be a little more grown up and may mention the Holy Spirit, the sponsor or the chosen saint.

• Congratulations on your Confirmation. May the Holy Spirit guide you always.
• We are proud of the young person you are and the faith you have chosen.
• Wishing you strength, wisdom and peace on your Confirmation day.
• May the gifts of the Holy Spirit be with you in every step you take.
• As your sponsor, I am honored to stand with you today. God bless you.
• We are so proud of you for taking this step in your faith. Congratulations, and God bless you.
• We are praying that God keeps you close as you grow into the person He made you to be.

First Communion Thank You Notes

After the celebration, send a short note to everyone who gave a gift, came to the Mass or party, or helped with the day. A child can usually write a few lines with a parent's help. Name the gift, say how it will be used, and thank the person for coming.

Thank You Notes From the Child

• Thank you for coming to my First Communion and for the beautiful rosary. I will keep it forever.
• Thank you for the Bible. I love the pictures, and I read it with Mom at bedtime.
• Thank you for the cross necklace. I wore it the whole day.
• Thank you for your generous gift and for celebrating my special day with me.
• Thank you for the card and the money. I am saving it for something special.
• Thank you for helping make my First Communion so special. Love, Lucy

Thank You Notes From Parents to Guests

• Thank you for celebrating [Name]'s First Communion with us. It meant so much to have you there.
• Thank you for the thoughtful gift for [Name]'s First Holy Communion. She has already put the rosary beside her bed.
• Thank you for your kind card and generous gift. We are grateful for your prayers and your friendship.
• We are so thankful for the support you have given [Name] in his faith. Thank you for being part of his First Communion Day.
• Thank you for making the trip to be with us for [Name]'s First Communion. It was a day we will always remember.
• Thank you for preparing [Name] for First Communion this year. Your patience and kindness made a real difference.

Frequently Asked Questions

What do you write in a First Communion card?

Congratulate the child by name, say how proud you are, and add a short blessing such as "May God bless you today and always." Keep the wording simple enough for a seven or eight year old to read on their own.

What is the difference between a First Communion card and a Confirmation card?

A First Communion card usually goes to a young child, so the wording is short and simple. A Confirmation card is often for a teenager and can mention the Holy Spirit, the sponsor and the young person's own decision to be confirmed.

When should First Communion thank you notes be sent?

Try to send them within two to three weeks of the celebration.

Who should get a First Communion thank you note?

Send a note to everyone who gave a gift or a card, the godparents or sponsor, and anyone who helped with the Mass or the party. Many families also thank the child's teacher or catechist.

For more faith-based ideas, see our baptism wishes and our guide to thank you card messages. You can also browse all of our Christian cards and Christian thank you cards.

For the child's card, our Christian Cross Greeting Cards are blank inside, with room for a message and a verse. For the notes afterward, the Christian Cross Thank You Cards have "Thank You" printed on the front. Both are printed on 100% recycled paper.